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OPEN MIC – Serenity & The Double Yellow Line

OPEN MIC

 

Hi there!

My name is Corrie and I live in a little village near the bright lights of Manchester.

I’ve just joined the 30 club, recently bought a house with my wonderful partner and rescued a loveable dog called Daisy…..so basically life is all good!

Corrie

I am happiest when I’m:

Jet setting! –  My FT job allows me to travel the world so I count myself extremely lucky.

Baking! – My surname is Baker so it’s in my genes!

On the beach! – Life is sweet when there is sand between my toes and a sea breeze in my hair.

Most importantly I don’t take life too seriously and enjoy a good G&T whenever I can 🙂

 

DOUBLE YELLOW DAISY

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I recently joined a Facebook page that is dedicated to the lovely little village I live in with my partner and pooch Daisy! The page is predominantly useful for updates on all things villagy such as recommendations for local gardeners, dates of the next farmers market, recent planning permission for a new pub…you know the score…

I was browsing through my Facebook feed yesterday when I came across a post from the  village page that really made me think about how we sometimes let negativity spiral out of control.

The post contained a picture of a car parked on double yellow lines on a side street in the centre of the village. Along with the image was a comment from a local resident angrily  protesting about how stupid and inconsiderate people are and what a disgrace the village is coming to. I continued to read the 13 or so other comments from residents which contained remarks such as “There are not enough PCSO’s dealing with these serious issues so I have called the police”, “I have called the council and was put on hold for 15 minutes, they said they were going to send someone to issue a ticket”, “It is really inconvenient to have to walk in the road when these stupid people park illegally”.

I am not usually one for commenting on or getting involved in debates on the internet (seriously who has the time?) but after 3 French Martini’s yesterday evening (hiccup!) I felt compelled to try and change the tone of the rant into a positive one!

I am a strong believer in negativity breeding negativity and effecting our lives in many ways, often without us realising it. Before you know it you are yelling at your partner for the tiniest thing, then when you take a step back and think to yourself “where the heck did that come from!”, your negativity has stemmed from something as tiny as a car parked on double yellows. If you don’t control it, negativity can suck the life out of your world.

My comment to my fellow villagers was therefore as follows:

“Parking on double yellow lines is one of life’s little niggles that no matter how much it annoys you, someone, somewhere is doing it right now. Given that it is an act that a majority of us have done in the past and will probably do again at some point in our lives, shouldn’t we all ask ourselves is it really worth wasting our time getting irritated by something we cannot change? In the grand scheme of things when there is enough negativity already in the world, is it really worth spreading this frustration onto our families, friends, colleagues? Maybe we should consider looking at this post in a different light?…….

How much time did it take you today to take this photo and post it on Facebook?

How much time has everyone taken reading it and posting a comment?

How much time have you spent talking about it to friends and family?

How much money did you spend ringing the police and the council?

Has your time and money been well spent?

I dare everyone to add up the amount of time they have spent on this post and use the same time tomorrow to create something positive;

Call an elderly relative

Play with your children for 10 minutes longer

Give your neighbour a lift somewhere

Buy your wife some flowers for the same price you spent on hold to the council.

Our time is precious so is it worth wasting it on breeding negativity?

I wasn’t overly bothered if my comment infuriated anyone, I was only interested in trying to turn a negative situation into a more positive one and if my thoughts had rubbed off on just one person it was time well spent.

For me – time spent reading and commenting on the post = 20 minutes. Today I will therefore be using this 20 minutes be giving my colleague a lift home so she doesn’t have to get a tram, two trains and bus home.

Best Regards

Corrie

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Disclaimer : Opinions raised in this Open Mic series are entirely the words, thoughts & opinions of the guest author & are not necessarily the opinion of Lizzie Somerset’s Blog.  LS XO

 

Hi, I’m Over Here!!

Hi sweet friends,

I’m over on the 365 Pearls of Wisdom blog today, go check out my first guest post on anxiety, Post Natal Anxiety & hurrah for positive change!!

http://365pearlsofwisdom.blogspot.co.uk/2014/01/mondays-moment-of-wisdom-pearl-number-65.html

I’d really appreciate some feedback on this one so please do comment on 365 Pearls of Wisdom blog, &/or below!!

See you there!

Lizzie xoxo

Five on Friday 17th January 2014 Edition

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Hi Friends & Happy Friday!

This week has been curtailed due to illness in our family, me & the sweet kids have all had colds. So we’ve stayed home, dosed ourselves up & helped the sorrows with chocolate digestives & playing with the farm my (late) sweet Grampy made me.

sweet bea

sweet harry

I’ve also loved reading other blogs this week. Reading other people’s stories is what inspired me to start writing my own. These people I follow allow me into their lives, with stories, anecdotes, tips, advice, recipes & more, a community.

So this week’s 5 is showing some love to those blogs who have inspired, made me think, or just cheered me up & got me through this week!

1.  Sprinkle of Glitter

My all time favourite blogger is Louise from Sprinkle of Glitter. I love how I can hear her voice through her words & she has an uncanny way of saying what is in my head!

This week the post I loved & I’m so excited Motivational Monday is back. I need it, oh yes i do!!

Yup, what she said!

2.  Louloudorset

My good friend has started blogging again, yay! I loved the Filofax part of this post & must get a monthly insert for mine. How much do I need to get organised right now. Sheesh.

I’m looking forward to reading Lou Lou’s Schedule Sunday every week & hoping it’ll give me the kick up the bum I need.

3.  Every Day Cheer

A great blog for free printables & ideas for your kids. I always love reading about them! I always think they’re such cute ideas (I’m not a crafty person but I love the pictures!!)

This post is a valentines idea for the kids & really cheered me up.

4.  A.Liz Adventures

This Southern charm is always posting lovelies but this post caught my eye (did someone say magpie?). Yes, anything that gets my silver shimmering or my glitter glittering will always get my vote.

This is a great tip for cleaning your silver.

5.  Fancy Ashley

This gal is quite simply the most positive blog I follow. So when I saw this post it really touched my heart.

It really helps to know that things are not always rosey?! Life is sometimes hard & it’s good to share, take comfort in friendship & community. I love Ashley’s attitude even in the dark & uncertain days that life sometimes throws at us. I can learn a lot from her.

These are the posts that caught my eye this week!

Until the next time friends!
Have a great day

Lizzie xoxo